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How to Develop Self-Confidence

CONFIDENCE

Confidence isn't walking into a room thinking that you're better than anyone.
It's walking in knowing that you don't have to COMPARE yourself to anyone.
Comparing yourself to another person that isn't even in your system.

There's no thought of comparison.
There's no competition with any or other human.
You're not above anyone.
You're not below anyone.
That's confidence when you can get to the place in your life where comparison is dead.
Where you ARE good enough not to others but to yourself.
That is confidence and you can be good enough right now because you're good enough right now.
You might just need to change your mindset.

Confidence can be developed in many ways.
You can start with your physiology, your posture.
If I asked you what a confident person looked alike would you be able to tell me ?
Of course you would.

They look strong, sure of themselves how are they standing ?
They are standing TALL.
How are their shoulders ?
They're BACK, upright.
They make eye contact, their head is up, not down.

Now a SHY or introverted person might say "yeah, all that's all good for outgoing people but I will never be confident".

Anyone can develop confidence.
Some might have to work on it harder than others because they have conditioned themselves into a lack of confidence for much of their life.

But anyone can develop confidence even the majority of shy people have moments where they aren't shy like around people they trust, maybe family, friends or their partner.
Moments where they can be themselves fully.
so, the shyness is selective which meana you can make confidence permanent if you CONCIOUSLY decide to be the person and do the things you do.
Not just around those you trust the most, but all the time.

Being confident doesn't mean you're LOUD. It isn't about being the one that has to be noticed. It's the opposite. It's knowing you're great without having to be seen. It's the silent winner. It's the humble champion.

If you lack confidence, you can change.
If you lack anything, you can change.


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